Self - Confidence

[chaychay644]

How do you handle tough situations in your life?..Do you always have the self - confidence to do anything?..Coz we all know that having a self-confidence plays a vital role in your life especially on your prospective career..

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[crisipicada]

How do you handle tough situations in your life?..Do you always have the self - confidence to do anything?..Coz we all know that having a self-confidence plays a vital role in your life especially on your prospective career..

Share us your opinion on this...

It is true that one of the characteristics a person to possess inorder to land a better job or in any endeavor is having self confidence or belief system. For me, i am quite a low profile of person. I am not as confident as others have. How will i improve such characteristics, Chay?

[ms.sin17]

hmm.. SeLf-cOnfidencE?? I think I am Lack Of that tOo.. ActuaLLy, I just feeL it OccasiOnaLLy.. SOmetimes, I feeL that I am a LOw prOfiLe persOn thats why I dOnt cOnsider myseLf with thOse high cLass peOpLe and then I feeL devastated.. I Lack seLf-cOnfidence because Of these twO things I am thinking.. I just graduated high school sO I Limit myseLf tO sOciaLize peOpLe that is higher than me and because Of my physical feature.. I am a LittLe bit chubby I just recentLy knew that Ladies must be cOnsciOus abOut their physicaL appearances that why I am dOing myseLf Ok sO thats they cOuLd have a nice impressiOn On me.. I easiLy gOt affected when sOmeOne is LoOking bad at me Or I sense that there is sOmething wrOng arOund me and by that I easiLy gOt devastated and my seLf-cOnfidence LOse.. I just hOpe that I cOuLd act myseLf weLL when I am sOciaLizing peOpLe because I dO nOt knOw hOw tO sOciaLize.. sOmetimes I feel that I am having Over seLf-cOnfidence and sOmetimes I dOnt reaLLy have it and I just sit in the cOrner.. I LOve pOsting here in the fOrum, I Observed that as I am participating here mOre I knOw hOw tO sOciaLize peOpLe aLready Or hOw tO speak tOwarDs them! I am sO happy.. I am mOre inspired in pOsting here, I think its because aLL the peOpLe here are very nice and friendLy..

[chaychay644]

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It is true that one of the characteristics a person to possess inorder to land a better job or in any endeavor is having self confidence or belief system. For me, i am quite a low profile of person. I am not as confident as others have. How will i improve such characteristics, Chay?[/quote]

I was the same, when I was at the age of 14..always feel shy in doing a lot of things such as participating in the school activities, whether it was a classroom or an extracurricular activities..but then, as time goes along, i was able to develop it with the help of my my friends..with them, i realize that there is nothing to be scared nor shy off as long as it is something that will help me aim good grades,,,yeah, it was my goal to have good grades..that's why i did all my best to overcome my shyness..and it helps a lot especially when i go to college..nobody could ever stop me to share whatever is on my mind..

[purex]

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It is true that one of the characteristics a person to possess inorder to land a better job or in any endeavor is having self confidence or belief system. For me, i am quite a low profile of person. I am not as confident as others have. How will i improve such characteristics, Chay?

I was the same, when I was at the age of 14..always feel shy in doing a lot of things such as participating in the school activities, whether it was a classroom or an extracurricular activities..but then, as time goes along, i was able to develop it with the help of my my friends..with them, i realize that there is nothing to be scared nor shy off as long as it is something that will help me aim good grades,,,yeah, it was my goal to have good grades..that's why i did all my best to overcome my shyness..and it helps a lot especially when i go to college..nobody could ever stop me to share whatever is on my mind..
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Great! What i am doing now is to be with positive friends and those who have self confidence. Thanks for your reply

[lovely]

Tough times in life makes you stronger. Self confidence do not develop over time. It is through obstacles and challenges in life.

[justmovenalong]

Self confidence is a must in life!In all aspects,without it you may get abused,disrespected,and taken advantage of.The only way to build it is to rely on yourself.The more you do for your self the more you build yourself confidence.You have to have a (I can do it addatude)in life and if you fail "so what" just try again with a different plan.I was a street kid and had to do everything for my self as a young man.Now I wouldnt say im rich but I do good and am not afraid to try anything.Im also not afraid to fail at anything and that is the biggiest advantage I got,because if your afraid to fail you will never try!!!!!!!

[purex]

Self confidence is a must in life!In all aspects,without it you may get abused,disrespected,and taken advantage of.The only way to build it is to rely on yourself.The more you do for your self the more you build yourself confidence.You have to have a (I can do it addatude)in life and if you fail "so what" just try again with a different plan.I was a street kid and had to do everything for my self as a young man.Now I wouldnt say im rich but I do good and am not afraid to try anything.Im also not afraid to fail at anything and that is the biggiest advantage I got,because if your afraid to fail you will never try!!!!!!!

You are right. Failure is the key to success and when we fail, we gain more confidence to do better.

[Mr.Magoo]

I often feel very confident about some things that I am comfortable with or know a lot about, but other times I feel awkward and lack self-confidence when i run into situations that I am unfamilier with, or know nothing about. So I think it comes with knowledge. But as someone else suggested, trying new things may result in failure and a lack of confidence, but it is a learning experience, and from t, we gain knowledge. Eventually, that knowledge will translate into a greater feeling of confidence when we are in that situation again. Hmmm....experience brings greater self-confidence.

[crisipicada]

I often feel very confident about some things that I am comfortable with or know a lot about, but other times I feel awkward and lack self-confidence when i run into situations that I am unfamilier with, or know nothing about. So I think it comes with knowledge. But as someone else suggested, trying new things may result in failure and a lack of confidence, but it is a learning experience, and from t, we gain knowledge. Eventually, that knowledge will translate into a greater feeling of confidence when we are in that situation again. Hmmm....experience brings greater self-confidence.

Hmmp you really want to gain confidence, Mr. Magoo and that you are really want to practice too hard