Komputer wrote:Well a divorce is 50 percent your fault. You just can not fault the other person.
Note that in the USA, the divorce rate is a bit over 52%, not too good odds of staying married if you ask me.
If you do not "fix" what you did wrong you will divorce again, no matter if you marry a pinay. Remember it takes two to tange, divorce, etc.
Do not count that just because you marry a pinay, your marriage will succeed.
Find out what you did wrong and try to improve that.
One thing I find that most Americans do is to work too much and not be home for the wife. One has to take care of what is home to make the marriage work.
Life is not all about JUST MONEY.
I see that over and over and over, time after time, the male is always working trying
to make monies but forgets to take care of what he has at home.
DID YOU MAKE that mistake?
What have you done or are you doing to change so that the next relationship works?
PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS AS A NEGATIVE BUT CONSTRUCTIVE
As I see it you worked on making monies and not on relationships, You just thought if you make money then everything would be alright..WRONG!
You say>>>>I’m the guy that always did the right stuff. I was that guy in high school that spent he’s summers helping at the homeless shelter one day and the next building homes for habitat for humanity.
I ask>>>What does all this have to do with making a relationship work?
As I see it, all you were doing was making yourself feel good but not working on any one to one relationship.
You say>>>When I was 15 I spent all summer roofing houses to have enough money to buy my first car.
I say>>> Again working on making monies to make you happy and not working on making some one else happy
You say>>>And buy ( SP, by not buy) the time I was 17 I was running my own business. And it’s been like that my whole life.
I say>>>> Again I see you were not working on relationships but on making monies.
Remember money is fine and needed but relationships need working on/taking care of what one has at home.
So please ask yourself ..what did I do wrong. what can I do to improve the odds of not failing
Do not just rush into marriage cause it will fail if you do not fix what you did wrong
GL
"Well a divorce is 50 percent your fault. You just can not fault the other person."
So wrong not even funny. Legally, depending on the state law, in the USA one partner can get a divorce without consent of the other partner.There is also cause, God created people with free-will. 2 saints could marry and then one could take a turn and head in the wrong direction, nothing the other person can do.
Sometimes both at fault, sometimes one at fault. If we do not know the circumstances we can not know who was at fault.
