by crisipicada » Tue Aug 28, 2012 1:41 am
Yesterday Monday morning, we had a very good conversation with my elder sisters and brother in law to be regarding divorce. I ask them what are their opinion about the matter.
Roger Delima, said that, as Christian it is not the will of God to get divorce in fact it is stated in the Bible that "what God has put together, let no man put asunder."
He emphasize about commitment in marriage. Unless the ex wife or ex husband is still alive, there is no way to get into married for the second time.
He said, we are already saved by grace and bought with the price. We are not our own. Every word of God must we give respect and obey. yes, people made laws but that is people's law. About Moses, he made that bill of divorcement because people become rebellious. The worst thing is that, sin of rebellion is sin as of witchcraft. Therefore, it is better to obey.
I also give emphasis about the verses in the Bible in Deuteronomy 24 regarding marrying again for the second time.
24 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
2 And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
3 And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife;
4 Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the Lord: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the Lord thy God giveth thee for an inheritance.
5 When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.
It is stated there that it is okay to marry again after the divorce.
Sometimes, it really needs to go back to the Bible as the basis of our actions so that we will not make another mistake again and regret of the mistake we made.
Nothing can separate us from the love of God