Appetite, according to their definition is not a physical reaction, but it is a mental psychological state in which you see food, smell food, or have other sensations that make you think you are hungry, but you are not truly hungry, and if you eat very often based on that motivation you will get sick, diabetes, or others sicknesses, and maybe you will get obese. So eat if you are hungry; your body needs that food, but learn to tell yourself no, if you merely have an appetite, and you are really not hungry, and you really don't need to eat, and if you do violate that principle very many times it will affect your health.
You are right mystic, love is not uncontrolable; you do have control over it. Some who seek illicit love, say it is uncontrolable, but that is not true, and if you go after illicit love, it will make your soul and maybe your body sick. Let love find you and do it correctly! Love does need to be cultivated to make it grow. It also needs chocolate candies, flowers, and perfumes!!!!



