Getting into the right relationship

[Edwin]

God does help heal the pain that we sometimes suffer. I never in a million years thought that one of our own kids would end up being so mean and hateful to us, and especially to me, but it has happened. I so wanted to see them judged by God, and maybe something horrible happen to them because of what they have done to us, but Carol has helped me to over come the bitterness. Our other twin daughter told me that the daughter we were having trouble with is just exactly like I am, and that is why she and I have so much trouble with each other. It mostly all involves the twins who do/did not like their younger sister, and she came out of a horrible situation, and I helped her, and that is what made them angry with me. It is almost a replay of the prodical son story in the Bible, only this is the prodical daughter come home, and the older sisters being jealous of her, and even hateful towards me because of it. Well, things are not back to normal, in that I am not welcome at their house, and our daughter does not want to see me, hear from me, be around me, and it hurts, but the Lord is helping me with that.

[kitty]

Relationship, in terms of finding the right one, must need honesty and sincerity. It wont last if someone is dishonest and trying to hide something. We true, transparent, no playing and no agenda.

[m&m]

To have a right relationship is always accompanied by right heart, right motive, and right spirit. It is important, indeed, to have first have right relationship with the Lord. I know so many relationship ended with regret because they do not know what standard they must have. Without standard, is like riding a car going to the fro with the life in the world. For me, it is best to live a standard about the world. The world will always say... just go with the music, but it wont work at all.All must have a godly conviction to stay in any relationship. To compromise will always end up frustrating and sadness, so last night I try to clear my heart and mind through Bible reading and prayer for His guidance, for we all need guidance.

Therefore, be sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit. He will always guides us in the right direction in every action we talk. we will know that because we always have security at heart and peace in mind.

Hope that this will help to those who try to find their right mate in life. Happy weekend./

[cheryz]

i been in a relationship for a long time ago that was my first love and likewise i was his first love, we been together almost 2 years but then came a trial for us we got separated for a long distance relationship and we still communicate with each other thru text, phone calls and email until a year he come back but i heard some rumors that he got a girlfriend in there but i dont believe it until one day we meet up and we talk about it, that moment i ask him about the girl where he works and he tells me the truth im shocked that time because he dont lie to me but in the end we end up arguing about it. until one day i decided to break up with him because his not faithful and loyal to me, if he really love me why he could do that? we broke up but still he insisting not too because he loves me a lot!so i ask my self if this is the right man for me? ive been faithful to him honest and loyal but in return he betray me.

[crisipicada]

That is why it needs to pray. There are people who have a girlfriend, or a boyfriend right now, not necessarity they will end up together. There are people who have no bf or gf, but later on, they meet in the right time. It is better to commit to the Lord the love life. It pays to wait and be faithful.

[m&m]

i been in a relationship for a long time ago that was my first love and likewise i was his first love, we been together almost 2 years but then came a trial for us we got separated for a long distance relationship and we still communicate with each other thru text, phone calls and email until a year he come back but i heard some rumors that he got a girlfriend in there but i dont believe it until one day we meet up and we talk about it, that moment i ask him about the girl where he works and he tells me the truth im shocked that time because he dont lie to me but in the end we end up arguing about it. until one day i decided to break up with him because his not faithful and loyal to me, if he really love me why he could do that? we broke up but still he insisting not too because he loves me a lot!so i ask my self if this is the right man for me? ive been faithful to him honest and loyal but in return he betray me.

There is no certainty, really. People change, even those who we expect not too. In this case, you gave your heart so much for this guy. I can relate to that. Honestly, when I try to get online and try to talk men online, I was thinking that that person I talked is also doing the same thing to me. On the other hand, i was thinking or expecting that what I desire that we will be together in the future, then we are not because that guy maybe have different women online talking. And not only that, I was thinking that what that person is saying is true and only to me, but it was not.

Later on, I realized that, I only need to trust the Lord, or maybe be accept what people are doing to us, later on, they are the one will have guilt in their hearts of doing that to us who have been true. And also, we are not losser anyway. We desire to be true, but they are not, thus, they lose us. What do you think?

Anyway, I also develop in my heart that, I pray that, Lord, I am not happy on this, is this your will for me like this? Or is this life all about?

I realize that GOd is protecting me or maybe God still try to polish me or the other person to be prepared for marriage life. Sometimes, or all the time, we need to have surrendered life and seek His face and He will show the right path in His time.

[cheryz]

From a relationship you can get some experience and lessons to learn. To become a better person. At the young age I experience to be love andtto be betray. But now Im happy with my family.

[m&m]

From a relationship you can get some experience and lessons to learn. To become a better person. At the young age I experience to be love andtto be betray. But now Im happy with my family.

I Corinthians 13, it explains about our tribulations and trials in life. That it is common to man. And that God provided solutions to it/them. Keep up the faith and God will heal our broken hearts. Be happy knowing that God has something in store for us.