How to Handle Hurt?

[m&m]

Feeling could be great sometimes, and feeling could be bad, sometimes too. When feeling hurt, I try to stay foot and not to react to the situation of being hurt. I try not to get angry as some are so angry. But of course, there is a feeling of sadness and disappointment, feeling frustrated but not hopeless.

I remind myself that I trust the Lord for every situation. It is my prayer to do the right thing, as I believe "do what you know is right not what you THINK is right". Also, I believe that "Do what is right not what is easy or convenient". I live by this principle.

Because I trusted the Lord, and whatever comes my way, I trust Him, means i am in His control. And all that is going on is in His plan. If this happen to me, could be good or bad, it is because it affects my decisions. That is why I pray that to have right decisions in life, I need divine intervention.

Have you experience God's intervention? An example was, when I was riding a bus to Bukidnon with my niece, she was disappointed because we did not get the bus and we are in a hurry. I told her, well, that is not for us to ride now. Then we just knew that bus wheel was damaged or ruin. Those are just example of being patient, trusting God, and feeling okay because He is in control.

[crisipicada]

If i am hurt, I tend to be alone. I cry over and over again. Tears flow in my eyes, and I get big eye bags. It is not good to see especially when you go out to the house, people will notice it. When I am hurt, I pray and pour out my pain to the Lord. I said, "Lord, why do i feel this way. Please take away my pain. I do not deserve this. You know my heart. Please change my heart to be your hearts desire so I wont be able to make mistake. I am tired of being in pain. " Later I feel better. Thanks to the Lord.

[cheryz]

I feel hurt when people i love are in pain or did someone hurt them. I just want to fight them back but i couldnt, all i did was pray for them and try to talk and comfort them. i hate it when they hurt because i can feel the pain and its really painful especially when family got misunderstanding, i dont know myself where to side. i feel really bad when i cant do anything about their problem.

[crisipicada]

So hard to handle hurt but sometimes hurt is good for us. Look for the good out of bad experience, and it will make you stronger. Thank you Lord for all the things that happens to me.

[angel]

So hard to handle hurt but sometimes hurt is good for us. Look for the good out of bad experience, and it will make you stronger. Thank you Lord for all the things that happens to me.

Yes I learned to be strong for the hurting me inside for people who bully me when i was younger I learned to forgive them and be thankful for what I am now. Thank you God for these blessings.

[crisipicada]

It was horrible. It was so painful. It was so distressful and gives anxiety. I feel so down, hopeless, depress. I cannot eat, I cannot sleep, I cannot be happy and not in the mood. I cry and been crying. I wanted to be happy. I desire to have my own family and start a new life. But seems life is making me sad and painful. Later on in life, I said, Lord Please heal my broken heart. Give me peace and love. Give me hope and trust you more. I do not know my future but I will trust you. Then my heart is relieve.

[cheryz]

We are all prone to be hurt. Sooner or later, we will be hurt by somebody, intentionally or not.

How can we handle hurt at this moment?

Many of us cannot handle hurt and some tend to commit suicide.

Because of this, many people got mental illness and as a result, many got crazy.

I have learned that, while the body is sick, we need the doctor or go to the doctor.

When we are emotionally hurt, we need a healer, we need Jesus Christ who is the great healer and understand us.

The worst is, when we are emotionally hurt, we are also affected physically. The tendency is that we go to the hospital, though we are cure physically but later on we still sick.

I realized, based on my experience, that while emotionally afflicted, I need to kneel and bow my knee for His mercy and grace.

He is the ultimate Healer. That is my experience.

How about you all?

Sometimes people who hurts committing suicide, last 2 weeks i read about the news, one of young actress commit suicide both his parents are artist and so she is one of actress in OH My G cast, so sad about her by killing her self at her young age. There are many speculations about her gender that couldn't accept of people surrounded her.

[toni]

It is horrible having experienced hurt in my life.

[crisipicada]

Sometimes, the Lord allow this to us not to totally hurt us but to wake us up. Sometimes, we need to experience this in order for us to grow. It depends on our respond. When we are hurt, we tend to say, "I hate you", but actually, it means, "You hurt me". Hurt is a normal feeling for a normal person. Although we think it as negative experience in life, but we will be able to learn from it. That means, next time, I wont do this anymore because it hurts. So, it does good for us.

[cheryz]

Sometimes, the Lord allow this to us not to totally hurt us but to wake us up. Sometimes, we need to experience this in order for us to grow. It depends on our respond. When we are hurt, we tend to say, "I hate you", but actually, it means, "You hurt me". Hurt is a normal feeling for a normal person. Although we think it as negative experience in life, but we will be able to learn from it. That means, next time, I wont do this anymore because it hurts. So, it does good for us.

Hi Crisi, i love to read your topics and responses. For the encouragement and enlighten us to learn more, forgiveness and have faith. Thanks for sharing. You have so much great thoughts.