I am a lover not a fighter!
Yes, Crisi, put God first and He will give what is best is very good! It is very difficult to have the patience to relax and let God have His way. We want to help Him, and He doesn't need help. He can do it. I guess they call it running ahead of God when we try to help Him with His plan instead of trusting Him to take care of us.
If we put God first He will make it happen for us , right?