by edeline » Sat Oct 23, 2010 11:34 pm
I agree with what Chaychay has just posted that crying doesn't mean weakness on oneself. Yes, it is right, it just shows how tough you are to express what a person really feels inside. She is not afraid of what the people will think when sees crying. It just creates relief after crying because you all the emotions inside is being expressed and not kept inside.
It can drive someone to rise up again after fall if that was the reason of her tears.
If someone sees a girl crying, one thinks that she has problem. It doesn't mean like that all the time. It also means that a girl cried because of so much happiness that she is feeling and maybe having something which is beyond her expectations.
Simple things may let a woman cry right away but not all. It is healthy to cry because you have expressed the feeling inside you and you don't need to hide it.
In the side of a man, very seldom that he cries because he feels that he is coward if he does. But in me, I truly appreciate a guy who cries not necessarily in front of me, it could be caught in the act or accidentally watch him crying. I believe that if a man does cry it means that he is serious and affected and that is so good. He is not afraid of showing what is inside in his feelings.
When I went out last night with friends and my boyfriend Chas, he cried because of the song that stoke him. I thought at first that he was just whispering something on me until I saw his eyes crying and whsipering about the song.. He was so emotional and sentimental and I really liked it not because he cried but because of the character he has which most men don't have. Few men cried because of the past. That was such a mixed emotion when I saw him, I was happy but more on being sorry and sad for I don't want him to cry. I said to myself that I will not make him cry like that.
Edz