Age Difference

[abufarsi]

I agree with you Crispi, completely.

May/December marriages work, if those who are in them want them to work. If my wife wanted me to be her best friend, her only lover, her confidant, her shoulder to cry on or my eyes to smile into, who she tried out new ideas on, who walked shoulder to shoulder with me facing and solving life's problems... Age difference is probably not a concern.

[CoolLuke]

hello i am new here but i think age is important
i am 28 and would like to find someone close to my age
i see people that have been married for 35 and 40 years and i want that to so the person i marry needs to be close to my age
for an older man i guess it is ok to have a woman much younger but i think the woman might be bored with the life style of the older man as he would not want to go out and party

[edeline]

hello i am new here but i think age is important
i am 28 and would like to find someone close to my age
i see people that have been married for 35 and 40 years and i want that to so the person i marry needs to be close to my age
for an older man i guess it is ok to have a woman much younger but i think the woman might be bored with the life style of the older man as he would not want to go out and party

In my own, age is not really that important. I prefer a man who is older than me and nto neccesarily mean that we are of close age. As what others said, as long as the two are true to each other then it will be easier to handle the age gap difference. As long as there is love between the two and respect, those are very essential in a relationship.

Maybe some will be bored not going out at night and having so muhc party but not ALL are like that. There are really some also who just preferred to stay at home and keep busy with looking the family and the house. In me, I am 23 years of age but I am not a kind of person who likes to go out at night but instead just stay at home. am at home but I am not bored because I just enjoy staying.

[edeline]

I agree with you Crispi, completely.

May/December marriages work, if those who are in them want them to work. If my wife wanted me to be her best friend, her only lover, her confidant, her shoulder to cry on or my eyes to smile into, who she tried out new ideas on, who walked shoulder to shoulder with me facing and solving life's problems... Age difference is probably not a concern.

I agree with you and Mae as well. Age is not a problem. It maybe not acceptable in the eyes of the public but who cares? it is not their lives. As long as the two are strong and braveenough to face that one of the biggest challenge, then the two can overcome it. It says that love moves in mysterious ways. Sometimes, the hardest thing in life will become easy because of love. I have seen so many who disapprove a big age gap difference but as soon as they see that the marriage is going good, they will leave you and it will turn to admiration. A proof that the two are true to each other. It is more on the side of the girl I think to prove how much she loves his guy and how much he wants her for her life.

[CoolLuke]

I prefer a man who is older than me and nto neccesarily mean that we are of close age.

i know what you mean and 5 or 8 years is ok, but 20 or 30 years it think is too much. but maybe not going ut to party but just watching tv and stuff is all different for old people. my grandma watches really boring tv and I like mtv and stuff. she will not let me watch that when she is home. marry old man would be like that and make too many chances to hate each other quickly and break up.

[edeline]

maybe there are chances to have break up and gets bored but I think not all.

[abufarsi]

Too cool hand,

I would seriously consider a woman 35 years my junior.

The "party" thing is indeed a problem as parties I enjoy are quite different than what most kids think of at a party. But how many parties do married people over the age of 30 go to anyway? Of course theme parties are common (birthdays, christenings, baby showers, weddings) but "just hang out" parties are for unattached kids, not married couples with kids at home. If you are a social butterfly, with every kid you went to high school still a friend you see regularly, you are not a candidate for a May December marriage for sure. If you are mostly a stay at home person, with a few very close friends, you probably are.

The TV argument... Get 2 TVs and each watch with head phones, sharing interesting parts of there own selected programming.

[CoolLuke]

The TV argument... Get 2 TVs and each watch with head phones

i thought the idea of a relationship is sharing stuff
sitting with headphones on all night watching different tvs doesn't make for a happy ending
it is not just tv it would be movies and music in general exactly as you say about the parties
you are identifying exactly the differences that would break the deal over time
my parents are in their late 40s and they go to dinner parties that can get pretty exciting but my gran hated the two she went to as it was all too loud with too many people talking shouting and laughing all the time.

[crisipicada]

The TV argument... Get 2 TVs and each watch with head phones

i thought the idea of a relationship is sharing stuff
sitting with headphones on all night watching different tvs doesn't make for a happy ending
it is not just tv it would be movies and music in general exactly as you say about the parties
you are identifying exactly the differences that would break the deal over time
my parents are in their late 40s and they go to dinner parties that can get pretty exciting but my gran hated the two she went to as it was all too loud with too many people talking shouting and laughing all the time.

If love beats in someone's heart, age don't matter at all.... When i was in grade three, it is still fresh in my mind that i have a crush on my teacher. I always see to it that i will see him everyday. I had a feeling to him even i was still 8 years old at that time... I believe that was normal for a kid to appreciate and have someone's admiration to the one who is age is much higher

I now learn that you must express your love to someone you have feeling or else you will always in the hospital
Now, i will see to it that the love of my life will be happy and i can express how i feel for him too

Moreover, let action and words be known to the one you love or else you will regret... If there will be regret then charge it to the Book Of Romans which states that ... All things work together for good... That means whatever happen to us whether bad or good..... there is always good for it and we must always be positive

[edeline]

;) Age matters to other but not all as long as the two have the same feelings for each other. As long as the two are faithful and want to spend the rest of their loves with their partners then everything will be fine no matter there will be problems to come.