how to attract foreign man

[cutegen]

i am just wondering ... coz i have already meet 2 foreigners from australia and canada but i think they dont like me..i dont know if they just look filipina women physically or what i am lacking for....i hope i can get some suggestions especailly from a foreign guy or from a filipina women who have married foreign guy...so that i can used it when i will meet a guy someday...
thank you

[red]

good topic cutegen...i had chatted many guys before and yes, looks is one foremost factor they would consider in a Filipina...but you know what, dont worry coz not all guys look for it...some pinays who are ugly but they got married to good looking well off guys. When my husband saw me first on this site he said i was not the only one he got attracted to..there were many of us that he communicated online..until it came down to only me..why? because he found me interesting to communicate and I am a Christian and also of the educational background i got!..he always tells me I am smart...and guess what, my attitude was the last thing he discovered. He didnt realized I am this beautiful inside too...so he is proud to have me as his wife and first time we met...he said" thank you God..thank you God...Allelujah"..I really dont consider myself beautiful physically right now, coz i have two kids now and body figure vanished..i was not able to maintain that vital stats..but my husband said..."honey, even if you get so fat..i will always love you"...So Cutegen, just be yourself, dont pretend to be like others...soon that guy you dream of will come .... take your time on searching and pray harder...

[cutegen]

wow..i was inspired with your answer red...i am just wondering coz when i have meet that 2 men...they didnt message me anymore...hehee...the australian man i meet him last 2007 i think..but i think it was my fault coz i am still afraid to tell him the truth about my physical condition so maybe that is the reason that he lost interest in me and choose the girl from leyte...recently i meet a man from canada, i already believe that he likes me coz of what he said and we are together for 3 days but when he come back to their place he didnt appear anymore..i even dont receive any messages from him..he even make me promise to not found another boyfriend anymore but its been 1 week and 3 days but i havent heard from him..its so weird...he better be honest..lols...

[red]

im glad you are inspired.. be very careful because some of these guys are doing "girl hopping" but its their right to choose whose best for them. Just dont spend time with them in bed. Some of them like to meet you in person to get to know you personally and if they find something they dont like or realized something opposite they believe on you while communicating online then, they are going to quit talking to you. Just remember this....there's one guy that is meant for you or maybe nothing....i was like you before. I got desperate too but just when i starting to lose hope many men emailed me then i took it easy..until i met the person i was waiting for so long and that was my husband.

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......and oh...dont ever asked about money....they hate it.

[cutegen]

heheheh...never in my life that i ask money to them...hehehe...i want them to trust me...and love me for who i am..i hope that Mr. right would come to me sooner..hehehehe

[dakodakogid]

From a foerign man:

On line try to use correct English. I understand that the Philippines is text crazy but poor grammar and spelling makes you sound less tan intelligent. This includes abreviations such as coz, cu, gr8t and many many more.

Make you photos as clear as possible. Show some skin if you like but if you make yourself too slutty, you will attract guys looking for sluts. Use more than one photo. If you are not beautiful, do not dispair. Most guys are scared of gorgeous girls and most gorgeous girls know how to manipulate.

Make your expectaions clear. If they are misrepresented and you meet the guy once, you will never see them again.

Rich is relative. Never ask about money. Never complain about being poor. If the guy meets you, likes you and the relationship develops, the guy will be willing to make your and your family's life more comfortable.

If a guy sends you money for something use it for that and nothing else. Its hard to trust somebody deceitful.

Hope this helps

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.......sounds just like my husband....i agree with that hundred percent!

[chaychay644]

good topic cutegen...i had chatted many guys before and yes, looks is one foremost factor they would consider in a Filipina...but you know what, dont worry coz not all guys look for it...some pinays who are ugly but they got married to good looking well off guys. When my husband saw me first on this site he said i was not the only one he got attracted to..there were many of us that he communicated online..until it came down to only me..why? because he found me interesting to communicate and I am a Christian and also of the educational background i got!..he always tells me I am smart...and guess what, my attitude was the last thing he discovered. He didnt realized I am this beautiful inside too...so he is proud to have me as his wife and first time we met...he said" thank you God..thank you God...Allelujah"..I really dont consider myself beautiful physically right now, coz i have two kids now and body figure vanished..i was not able to maintain that vital stats..but my husband said..."honey, even if you get so fat..i will always love you"...So Cutegen, just be yourself, dont pretend to be like others...soon that guy you dream of will come .... take your time on searching and pray harder...

nice post..thanks for sharing this to us..very inspiring..and so, me too..i have to wait...

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..........salamat........goodluck ........