do you want a virgin?

[manilamadman]

Many claim virginity, few are, true in both USA and RP. Men are valued for assertiveness, so they overly estimate their conquests. Women are valued for purity, so they like to forget their adventures. If I has a dollar for every fake virgin I would be wealthiest man in the world.

[crisipicada]

okay guys, be thankful if you find a filipina virgin one. of course we are proud to our future partner that we only give ourselves to only one person.

[Edwin]

okay guys, be thankful if you find a filipina virgin one. of course we are proud to our future partner that we only give ourselves to only one person.

Yes, and that is extremely valuable, Crisi!

[bushdr3]

It dosen't matter much-yes it would be nice to be that but if not one golden rule...If by misteak you compare-your current lover is the best!

[Smiley]

I have utmost respect for those who put a high value on their virginity. If it truly means that much to you,by all means,cherish it.
Virginity is not something that I would demand because I don`t believe that I have the right to demand something that I cannot give in return.After all I have a couple of grown children.
I do however, demand trustworthyness and fidelity,also,empathy and compassion,honesty,and dedication. I feel that I do have the right to demand these traits because I will give every one of them in return without compromise.

[Twosparrows]

Virginity IS a precious gift to be shared with the one with whom you have to committed to love forever. However that is not always the case so some would say it is not that big of a deal so everyone can 'feel good'. Yet every woman and man who is not a virgin can tell you the person with whom they gave their virginity to even though they may not remember the rest, except a person who gave them their virginity. Truth is truth, and the truth is it should be cherished because it is special.
A friend of mine married a virgin who was also a friend of mine; I saw them when they came back from their honeymoon and I could see his spirit in her eyes...it was the strangest thing.
So do I want to marry a virgin?
At my age I don't expect to, especially since I am not a virgin, yet if I did marry a virgin, I would not make light of the sacrifice she made to stay a virgin and would cherish her gift to me.

Would I marry a bar girl?
Yes, if she had become a Christian, because the Bible says. in 2 Corinthians 5:17 "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!"
If God no longer judges her, then who am I to judge!

One thing about a bar girl is I think they would know better than most women the difference between true love and sex.

[abufarsi]

My first marriage was to my high school sweetheart. We were both virgins. One aspect of ritual sacrifice of your virginity is that it is a step from one place to the next. An Idea that we can't go back to the ignorance or nobility that virginity signifies.

This step was lacking in other relationships. There was no change in lifestyle, or better said, mindset. No marker to note the way we have traveled before. No mutual sacrifice to each other as a symbol of commitment, in the most private way.

I miss it.