I did not see in this thread where people were married, and during the marriage on where persons needs for sex changed.
No did I see where a situation where people married and then found the needs of the other person were greater than/less than the corresponding partner, and what they did about it.
Everyone seems to agree that Sex is important in a marriage.
What do you do if eventually you find that sex is just not that much fun?
What do you do if your partner thinks sex 5 nights a week is good and perfectly normal, and you just feel that a few hugs before sleep is all you need tonight or any night?
What do you do if, unexpectedly, you find that your partner just does not excite you anymore?
There are a lot of ways/things that can be described as sexual. What if your partner demands procedures, sequences, timing, birth control, Peccadilloes, that simply deny your desires?
How can these serious problems be faced before you make a lifelong commitment?