18 Signs He Loves You

[Edwin]

Lots of signs!

[crisipicada]

You will know that he loves you because he is enthusiastic, giving you time, giving you encouragement, always remembers you. He plans for your future both, praying for you, have concern about you. And it is true to women towards men.

[Edwin]

You will know that he loves you because he is enthusiastic, giving you time, giving you encouragement, always remembers you. He plans for your future both, praying for you, have concern about you. And it is true to women towards men.

It is true both ways, huh, Crisi?

[crisipicada]

Sometimes, men are not actually showy with their true feelings to the woman. Why? Because they are so much concern of taking care of woman's heart by not stirring woman's emotional they are not ready to meet. Love that waits, love that sacrifice.

Sometimes, too, need not to tell in a hurry because, there is danger in rush. A really appreciate the guy who become my sister's boyfriend before. He leaves passion for the sake of purity. He does not trigger emotions that can cause or hinder what they are suppose to do and be use in the work of the Lord. For the sake of commitment, the guy did not pursue as soon as possible passion and reserve that until they are ready to commit life for a life time. What a wonderful example of a mature christian.

I have observed, many relationships end up heart broken because they mixed with sin and God hates sin, in the end, end up miserable and the worst is men give them promises and some get pregnant and the man leave them and go back to their respective country.

Not only that, some relationship that end up, the woman get suicide because of the pain she felt. She experience that she does not want to live because she cannot survive the hurt caused by the guy. Some, got depress and almost half dead and sometimes get mad or crazy and go to the mental hospital. I heard the news about the woman who fall inlove and the guy leave him and she commit suicide but did not die but was rush to the hospital..

Another, just a month ago, one of the hotels here in Valencia, a guy and girl, found out lying in bed dead, both are students from my school at CMU. The bad thing is that, the girl is pregnant base on the autopsy result. Is that love what we call or feel?

These two examples speak about LOVE. The one is motivated by sacrifice and wait for the right time for COMMITMENT.
The other one speak about LOVE but motivated by selfishness and sin. So what kind of love you have? You can tell.

[chaychay644]

chay,,,it's supposed to be 19 signs...like... 19. He makes you coffee every morning. hehehehehe

sis, abuso nayan..ahhahah..kaw nlang gawa ng coffee for him..

[crisipicada]

I do believe that Love need not a sign. Just like in the Bible. There are people who got married because they are destined to each other but actually they never courted or dated for long years to know each other. Therefore, I have learned that if only one of our prayers that God will make us or prepare us to be the right woman or man to someone, then no need to worry whom to marry. Sometimes, I need to increase faith whom God has really prepared for us and pray for His timing, because sometimes our time is not His. And His timing is always the right timing

[Edwin]

I do believe that Love need not a sign. Just like in the Bible. There are people who got married because they are destined to each other but actually they never courted or dated for long years to know each other. Therefore, I have learned that if only one of our prayers that God will make us or prepare us to be the right woman or man to someone, then no need to worry whom to marry. Sometimes, I need to increase faith whom God has really prepared for us and pray for His timing, because sometimes our time is not His. And His timing is always the right timing

Time is difficult for us, but you are right, Crisi, that God's time is the right time.

[philippines]

Waiting for some of that Signs. hehe thanks for sharing Chay.. Nice one!!!

[BigBlastGuy]

What are signs SHE loves you?

Whenever were in a relationship we always wanted to make sure that our man loves you or if he is losing interest in you..

The following signs and signals may help us determine whether he loves you or not..

1) Does he get natural smile when he sees you?

2) Does he pay attention to what you are talking?

3) Does he call you anytime in a day to talk in general?

4) Does he pay attention to your daily routine and is he interested in it?

5) Does he remember your likes and dislikes?

6) Does he try to see you often even if it means just for few minutes?

7) Does he sometimes cancel his boys' outing just to be with you?

8) Does he try to sit or stand near you and touch whenever possible?

9) Does he happily introduce you to his family and friends?

10) Does he care about your friends and relatives?

11) Does he happily spend money on things which you like?

12) Does he plan future dates with you? For example buying tickets for the concert which is after 2 months or scheduling an outing with you for the next vacation.

13) Does he like to talk to you after coming from work or simply take magazine or TV remote controller in hand?

14) Does he share his passion interests with you? Like discussing about the latest car in the market or news about football match?

15) Does he talk about future of your relationship? For example, kids, house or family planning?

16) Does he genuinely shows respect for you and praise you in front of other people?

17) Does he pamper you, compliment you and like spoiling you with romantic things

18) Does he take responsibilities to help you or to make you comfortable?

[BigBlastGuy]

This all may be true from the way woman / filipina sees/feels about love indicators but it may be useful if you understand how a man sees these love indicators. So here is my opinion, maybe it will be helpful.

Whenever were in a relationship we always wanted to make sure that our man loves you or if he is losing interest in you..

The following signs and signals may help us determine whether he loves you or not..

1) Does he get natural smile when he sees you?
Yes-good indicator.

2) Does he pay attention to what you are talking?
Maybe--at first he will pay attention until he knows more about you then he will not be as interested. Man tend to talk less than women so are less interested in conversation than women, Men tend to "tune out" women in a long conversation. That is his nature, do not expect he will want as much conversation as your girlfriends

3) Does he call you anytime in a day to talk in general?
Same as #2. Women like more conversation than men so see it as important. At first a man may call as he is seeking to know more about you but facts are that men just do not call and chat as much on the phone as women do

4) Does he pay attention to your daily routine and is he interested in it?
He may be interested but not interested in as much detail as women are.

5) Does he remember your likes and dislikes?
Yes--probably a good indicator. But give him time to get to know what they are. He can not read minds!

6) Does he try to see you often even if it means just for few minutes?
This is an indicator he wants to know more about you, does not mean that he loves you.

7) Does he sometimes cancel his boys' outing just to be with you?
Yes--he will put more priority on time with you than his pals. At least while dating.

8) Does he try to sit or stand near you and touch whenever possible?
He is physically attracted to you, may or may not love you.

9) Does he happily introduce you to his family and friends?
Yes--good indicator,

10) Does he care about your friends and relatives?
He may care about their opinion of him and how that effects his relationship with you, but different cultures have different standards, filipinos have strong connections to relatives, most western cultures are not as concerned with relatives as are filipinos.

11) Does he happily spend money on things which you like?
He may be attempting to impress you but flashing cash does not indicate love.

12) Does he plan future dates with you? For example buying tickets for the concert which is after 2 months or scheduling an outing with you for the next vacation.
Yes--good indicator.

13) Does he like to talk to you after coming from work or simply take magazine or TV remote controller in hand?
After a hug, kiss and a few minutes of chat most men want to "unwind for awhile--this is natural for men. This alarms women because they want closer connection.

14) Does he share his passion interests with you? Like discussing about the latest car in the market or news about football match?
Yes up to point, but he does not want to have endless conversation.

15) Does he talk about future of your relationship? For example, kids, house or family planning?
Yes--good indicator he has high interest in a future together.

16) Does he genuinely shows respect for you and praise you in front of other people?
Respect, yes a good indicator. Praise in front of other people--men tend to be more private about their love interests than women so he will probably not do this as much as the woman wants.

17) Does he pamper you, compliment you and like spoiling you with romantic things.
50% possibility he is wanting to move toward sex.

18) Does he take responsibilities to help you or to make you comfortable?

Not a good indicator. If he is visting a filipina he has traveled a long way, he is tired, in new different culture and does not know what is expected in that culture. He is not in his own home so it is difficult for him to be gracious host. If the filipina travels to his country to visit him then yes he should be gracious host.