how to keep the love alive?

[crisipicada]

actually I am the person who easily get discourage. and when i am discourage i cry a lot that is why i am sick. i am so emotional that i cannot breath if i am hurt but thanks be to God for the things he allow to me i will just count that as part of life but still i treasure forever the people who has been in my life and they will remain in my heart

[Edwin]

actually I am the person who easily get discourage. and when i am discourage i cry a lot that is why i am sick. i am so emotional that i cannot breath if i am hurt but thanks be to God for the things he allow to me i will just count that as part of life but still i treasure forever the people who has been in my life and they will remain in my heart

Yes, God does help us, and the people in our lives are to be treasured.

[crisipicada]

it is hard to love but we are commanded to. it is harder to love our enemy but we must to.

to keep the love alive, give sanction to God for the person you are praying. it is a good thing to know that God is the center of every relationship.

[Edwin]

it is hard to love but we are commanded to. it is harder to love our enemy but we must to.

to keep the love alive, give sanction to God for the person you are praying. it is a good thing to know that God is the center of every relationship.

Yes, Jesus told us to love our enemies.

[mfred3778]

The greatest thing I ever learned in life is just to love (UNCONDITIONALY ) and be loved in return, its that simple. Lack of outstanding communications with each other will destroy any relationship, so before you can love and appreciate each other you must develop outstanding communications with each other to get to know each other and you always must respect each other.

[Edwin]

They say, "Love is blind." What they mean is that the young couple going together can't see the other's faults, and they think everything is wonderful. Then after marriage comes the eye opener when they suddenly realize that everything is not wonderful, and that it is forever, or at least it should be. I have also heard it said that, "You should go into marriage with your eyes wide open while courting, thinking about the flaws and the problems, and then after marriage you should close your eyes to the other person's faults." That is what Jesus has done for us. He has forgiven us and cleansed us, and now He doesn't see our faults, but He only sees us as being made whole by His healing for us, we being His chidren.

This young ministerial student had 2 girls he was interested in. One was beautiful, but had no talents. The other was not blessed with beauty, but she could play and sing skillfully. He thought to himself, "I would reallly like to marry the beautiful girl, but the talented one would serve me better in my ministry. So he married the one that was blessed with talent and not beauty. They went on a camping trip, and for breakfast around the breakfast camp fire she was not looking even as good as normal with her lack of beauty. He sat there on a log for a minute pondering what he had done, then suddenly he said, "Sing, honey, sing!"

[Edwin]

How can you keep love alive? How can you keep anything alive? If anything is going to be kept alive it has to be taken care of. Of course there is the planting, and that could be compared to the initiation of love. If nothing is done after that it will die. Plants have to be watered, have good soil, sunshine, and loving care to grow. Love is kept alive I think by giving attention to little things. Love will be kept alive as we show that we care. This can be done through words and actions. Words are great, but those words backed up by actions is even better. So tell you love, but also show you love.

[crisipicada]

Just as planting rice, it is important to take good care of it. It needs to get rid of pollutants and be very careful of the infestation. At the very young age, it needs to nourish and put some fertilizer that would make it more healthy. Lately, we shift into organic/natural fertilizer that is anti fungal, anti insecticide, and fast germination process.

Like any relationship we have, it needs constant care. Communication is the best way to keep love alive. Taking care and get rid of pollutants like, dishonesty, unfaithfulness, giving love and care is the best things to do in any relationship.

[Edwin]

Another possible analogy would be to turkeys. Turkeys are one of the hardest animals to get started successfully. They are dumb enough that they will stick their beaks in the air and drown in a rain storm. From the hatching of the egg on until the turkeys have a little grown they are really vulnerable to all kinds of tragedies. One of our son-in-laws raises all kinds of birds for fun; chickens, geese, turkeys, banties, and you name it he raises it. He bought a lot of baby newly hatched turkeys a couple of years ago. Then he made one critical mistake. He put them right in where the baby chickens had been. Baby chicken have a bacteria that kills baby turkeys, and I think he lost almost or all of them I can't remember now, but it was a distaster. So the rice analogy, or baby animals analogy both apply. Feed, water, temperature and humidity control, and disease erratication must take place for successful growth. Yes, and we need a clean heart before God, and yes, we need to be faithful whether it is to God or to our fellow man, and it is to both. We need to give time and attention, and communicate well.

[edeline]

They say, "Love is blind." What they mean is that the young couple going together can't see the other's faults, and they think everything is wonderful. Then after marriage comes the eye opener when they suddenly realize that everything is not wonderful, and that it is forever, or at least it should be. I have also heard it said that, "You should go into marriage with your eyes wide open while courting, thinking about the flaws and the problems, and then after marriage you should close your eyes to the other person's faults." That is what Jesus has done for us. He has forgiven us and cleansed us, and now He doesn't see our faults, but He only sees us as being made whole by His healing for us, we being His chidren.

This young ministerial student had 2 girls he was interested in. One was beautiful, but had no talents. The other was not blessed with beauty, but she could play and sing skillfully. He thought to himself, "I would reallly like to marry the beautiful girl, but the talented one would serve me better in my ministry. So he married the one that was blessed with talent and not beauty. They went on a camping trip, and for breakfast around the breakfast camp fire she was not looking even as good as normal with her lack of beauty. He sat there on a log for a minute pondering what he had done, then suddenly he said, "Sing, honey, sing!"

There are so many things to keep love alive and one of those things is being open minded. Good communication and understanding is one of the factors that makes a relationship goes wonderful. When I was with the man whom I truly love and I still do, I was hoping and praying that it will be us who will be together and I just want him so so so much.We both feel how much we love each other but sometimes there is really a situation that will stop you from having and wanting each other.

When I was with this man, we were chatting everyday and I was so happy when he called me. He understood me and he listened to me tirelessly. What else shall I ask for, I had my best man in the world whom I thought will be mine forever. When the two has a good chemistry everything will go smoothly and the relationship will be so much worthy. I don't know and I am not sure if I can still find a man like him, as good as him. He will always be in my heart.[color=#BF40FF][/color]

Sorry I am going beyond the topic. It just brought so many nice memories that passed to my life with my man.

Giving each other time towards each other keep love alive...Until I wake up that the same dreams we have will always remain as dreamssss....


One dream we have made true was being with each other and lying on bed next to each ther..wow how wonderful. I was wishing that day would not end..