losing and loving

[lyrehc]

You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back......This are the things i thought was right holding on to someone not mine now,but faith keep this feeling inside me,i know its wrong to hold on and stick to that love which isn't mine now, so in this topic i hope you can share you hurt break and to those who are still holding back....it's a matter of choice now so be free and do what makes you happy while you are still young, never regret everything because God has a purpose...

[red]

Ouch....wow that hurts indeed. I had lots of them before but thank God it indeed made me stronger person and Yes right God has always beautiful plans. Hallelujah! Praise God for the heartaches.

[Edwin]

Yes, I think heart breaks are hard. As people survive the heart breaks they become strong I think. I am still sensitive, but back when I was very young I was super sensitive. I would get my feelings hurt over one thing or another, and then I would say lets quit. I think I broke a lot of hearts, but then I had my feelings hurt. It is nice when people can work out their problems instead of calling it quits prematurely. Yes, God's plans are always the best. Eventually after seeking God's guidance something will work out. Then you will be stronger for the struggle, disappointment, and heartache. Of course often we can't understand that until later.

[red]

Yeah I agree, we complain for heartaches and endure it but when God show you something wonderful after that, that is when you will understand everything.

[Edwin]

Yes, and some things I don't think we will fully understand in this life. I have heard some people say that in heaven we will understand the reason for the heart aches, and then I have heard other people say that in heaven we will be past all the heart aches and troubles, and that when we get there we will no longer care about what happened on this earth. I do know that many times we go through things that are so painful, but after times heals we no longer feel the pain at all. It is like the woman giving birth. She endures the pain while the child is coming, but the joy of having the son or daughter makes her forget all about the pain and discomfort.